four years of togetherness have taught us a lot of things. things like compromise, understanding, accepting each other just the way they are, and adjusting ourselves to each other. we laugh, we fight, we love, we go through problems together, we have fun together, we cry, we yell, we scream, we broke up twice, but we came back to each other in the end.
there are too many beautiful memories to mention. too many sweet ones to share. too many delightful moments to remind me of, though I don’t think I would ever forget.. 🙂
2008 was the year of adaptation. we first met in 2007, but we get closer since January 2008. I came to the guys’ football practices and tournaments. I was still a bit (or am I?) attached to my ex boyfriend at that time, but I was already bringing Didik some drink after the practice or the match. THAT was the moment when our friends realize there’s something different between us. hehe..
a week after we become a couple, Didik took part in his class’s play. it was hilarious! my eyes were teary from my laughter, watching him play his part. oh dear, that was such a shock for a week girlfriend.. then I understood why his friend came up to me before the play, and say, “Didik asked me ask you, please don’t dump him after this”. thankfully, he never takes part in any play ever again. I think I could faint if he does. 😀
then there was my 23rd birthday. the first birthday we celebrate together as a couple.. 🙂 *well, we never celebrate our previous ones as friends either*
2009 was our most hectic and tiring year. both of us were preparing for our final assignment. no, not preparing, we’re doing it! I started first, of course. then comes the long nights, where I stayed up until dawn, and goes to sleep after praying. then I finally graduated. his turn came, and I stayed in Bandung with him to accompany him, making sure he eats well and have enough drink while doing his work. at the end of the year, I went to Qatar, and while I was there, we faced a veeery big problem. it was tiring, hurtful, painful, heart breaking, anything you can think of. it was one of our worst time, but it wasn’t the worst. we managed to get off the problem though. pyuhh..
2010 was our most peaceful year. no big fights, no tears, no yelling or screaming. just us. ^^ weddings were all over the place, I kinda envy them, but I was okay. I got a job, which is my dream job, he also got a job. oh wait! he got the job first, then me.. :p
2011 became our most colorful year. it was the year where our relationship was tested. he was tested, and so was I. I really hope none of those things would ever come back into our lives later on.. really, it was so hurtful and traumatic, that the pain endures until now.. 😦
but, 2011 was the year where his parents came to mine. 2011 was the year where I know that this was it. that I was the one he choose.
oh dear, it’s getting melancholic.. 🙂
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